In Your Best Self


I’ve used the label of perfectionist to describe me for years, especially as it’s a character trait associated with Virgos. “Virgos are notorious perfectionists who figure that if they’re gonna do something they might as well do it right. They set high standards for themselves and are constantly pushing themselves to achieve at higher and higher levels. Sometimes they[…]

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no clarity this way

In the western world we live in a society of rules, regulations, certainty & conformity. The need to conform is conditioned so deep within us through an inherent desire to belong.  The fear of rejection and wondering what others think generally overtakes the desire to achieve great things, do things differently or be who you[…]

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I suffered from this for years. Comparisonitis, a hugely infectious disease likely to be be caught by anyone who ever doubts their own ability, wants to belong or who is creating content, value and ideas in the world. I compared myself to others so much that it stopped me feeling good enough. It kept me[…]

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