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turn off netflix — and turn on yourselves.
what is temple?
Temple is a deeply transformational space exploring what it truly means to connect, and how to deepen into intimacy. We all long for connection: to be seen, to feel safe, and to be ourselves without proving, performing, or becoming who we think we need to be to belong. There is no pretending here.
Temple is a space where you are safe to be who you really are.
Temple is sex-positive, celebrating sexuality as a natural and sacred form of self-expression, however play, creativity and sensual expression are equally important.
Anchored in tantra, somatic practice, and embodiment, we work through the body allowing the mind to soften, rest, and take a holiday, so you can truly feel what is alive within you and let that guide the truth of your experience.
It’s not a workshop. It’s not therapy. It’s a temple space to reconnect—with no pressure to perform, no need to be “spiritual,” and nothing too serious.
It’s like date night... but deeper, juicier, and way more fun.
at the heart
Temple is about community.
So much healing, growth, and expansion happens when we gather in safe, loving, and accepting spaces.
This is tribe coming together in play, pleasure, and power,
exploring with curiosity and compassion what it means to be human.
Here, we let our guards down. We meet one another honestly.
And from this place, we create deeper intimacy and more authentic relationships — with ourselves and with each other.
What you'll experience
Partner practices to increase presence and
sensual connection
Moments of shared breath, movement, and intention
Opportunities to communicate, touch, and feel what’s alive between you
Inspiration for bringing more excitement, play, and depth into your sex life
Expect moments of quiet. Laughter. Sensuality. Play.
And simple but powerful ways to return to each other.
You’ll leave feeling more connected, more relaxed, and with a few new ideas for your next night in.
No pressure. No performance.
Just the two of you, feeling more you
This is not for couples to swap. It's a deep dive into your connection together.
Whether you’re looking to reignite the flame or just have a bloody good evening
without screens and distractions, you’re so welcome here.
You want to prioritize your relationship amidst life’s demands.
You’ve fallen into a routine
Conversations can sometimes feel surface-level
Physical intimacy is lacking
One or both of you struggles to express your feelings
You’re finding it difficult to carve out quality time for each other
The sense of excitement, passion, and exploration that once brought you together feels absent
You’re seeking more emotional vulnerability
You want to experience love differently
You’re excited to rediscover each other
the experience...
Day 1
transforming
date night
Unlock the secrets to a date night that transforms not just your evening, but your entire relationship
Day 2
WHAT TO
EXPECT
How to prioritize intimacy & make the most of this experience amidst a busy lifestyle
Day 3
understand
your dynamics
Imagine having multiple great relationships with the same person —what if it's possible?
Day 1
Day 4
NAVIGATING
TRIGGERS
Discover how can you handle emotional triggers and turn any conflict into connnection.
Day 1
Day 5
CONSCIOUS
COMMUNICATION
Learn to navigate communication as a team, sharing needs, expressing feelings & overcome challenges
Day 6
VISION
ALIGNMENT
Imagine a relationship where your deepest desires are met, your vision aligns and your connection grows endlessly.
Day 7
CREATING
CONNECTION
"Deepen your connection through touch with exercises that help you relax, turn off your mind & explore different sensations together.
Day 8
RELATIONSHIP
OF BENEFITS
A beautiful, connecting & heart warming practice to appreciate each other & reflect on your journey so far.
Day 9
DISCOVER
YOUR NEEDS
You have the ability to create magic by just bringing more of your awareness into your relationship.
Day 10
HOW TO
PREPARE
Learn how to set the stage for an unforgettable date night with an enchanting space, ritual & a hint of mystery
Day 11
day to night
transition
Very important one! How to go from a stressful busy day to being open for intimacy & sex
Day 1
Day 12
date night
example
Feel inspired & creative after seeing & feeling new ways of exploring your date together
The Finale
all important
after care
Intimacy doesn't end with the date—
aftercare is the key to ongoing connection.
transforming
date night
Unlock the secrets to a date night that transforms not just your evening, but your entire relationship
understand
your dynamics
Imagine having multiple great relationships with the same person —what if it's possible?
NAVIGATING
TRIGGERS
Discover how can you handle emotional triggers and turn any conflict into connection.
CONSCIOUS
COMMUNICATION
Learn to navigate communication as a team, sharing needs, expressing feelings & overcome challenges
CREATING
CONNECTION
Deepen your connection through touch with exercises that help you relax, turn off your mind & explore different sensations together.
DISCOVER
YOUR NEEDS
You have the ability to create magic by just bringing more of your awareness into your relationship.
the experience
Some of the videos include:
Why This Journey Matters
This isn’t just a week of videos & activities—it’s a pathway to transform your relationship. You’ll gain tools to handle life's inevitable triggers, express your needs, create a deeper, lasting bond and exciting sex life.
what's included
✔️ 13 Videos, Self Paced, To Suit Your Timeframe
✔️ Guided meditations and mindfulness practices.
✔️ Journaling prompts to spark self-reflection.
✔️ Interactive exercises for deeper connection.
✔️ Embodiment practices
✔️ A fully guided, intimate date night example.
✔️ Follow-up care to nurture your newfound closeness.
✔️ Music playlists & suggested tracks for specific moods.
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Your Temple guide
Hi, I’m Abi — someone who’s been exactly where you might be.
For years, I was in a sexless marriage, feeling numb, disconnected from my body, and unsure how to ask for what I truly needed. I didn’t know how to feel, let alone express my desire, let alone receive. That heartbreak cracked me open: and led me to the temple.
It was inside temple spaces that I finally softened. Where I learned how to be seen without shame, to be touched without expectation, and to speak my truth without fear of being too much. I came home to myself as a woman. It changed the kind of intimacy I called in - real, deep, devotional, playful, alive.
Over the past 4+ years, I’ve trained and worked in tantra, conscious intimacy, embodiment, and sacred sexuality. I’ve held temple spaces in Ibiza and beyond, and now I guide others, especially couples, back to the connection they crave.
My work is about presence, permission, and play. It’s about normalising healthy, empowered sexuality, and creating spaces where your full expression is not just welcome, but celebrated.
Whether I’m guiding couples through JOYn, supporting men to become conscious lovers, or helping women reclaim their emotional and sensual power—I’m here for the real, the raw, the beautifully human.
If you're ready to feel more
more love, more connection, more of you, you’re in the right place.
This is for you if:
You crave more quality time in your relationship
Life is busy, and you desire to feel each other's full presence
You want to explore intimacy without it feeling awkward or heavy
You love the idea of prioritising your connection in a new, fun & creative way
You’re ready to try something new together
You've gone through a rough patch and are looking to reconnect
what others say
This has been overall the best temple for me so far. I was afraid I wouldn't be able to tune into the right energy, or letting myself go, or just afraid that I was "using" it as a distraction to run away from my thoughts and problems.
Turns out that today I felt clarity in a way I haven't experienced for a while, and I was able to address uncomfortable conversations and issues in my life.
Thank you for the juiciness, for holding space
what others say
Just want to thank Abi & everyone for such a beautiful space to play and pray,
so playful and fun! - Jans
what others say
The way Abi, Arktara and Asis have set up tantric temple it was a journey undergoing through powerful shamanic ceremony. Since, I have integrated confidence in being soft feminine (my hips are swaying when I walk after decade!). And I have received so much love and care in warm temple that I finally feel worthy to receive love fully. Thank you! - Larissa
what others say
Soul deep is one of the most beautifully held temples I've come across. The energy they created was loving, safe, playful and profound. It really is soul deep! Abi is an incredible facilitator, with a wise, grounded energy and a great sense of humour, she’ll help you feel safe and emboldened to expand. If you're looking for a healing space that can be whatever you are in need of - from soft and gentle, to juicy and alive, I'd really recommend stepping into this one.
What if we’re feeling disconnected right now?
Perfect. This space is for exactly that.
Will there be nudity or sexual touch?
There is an open temple space which allows for nudity and sexual toucvh, if the energy goes there.
Is it OK if my partner’s not into ‘spiritual stuff’?
Yes. There’s no chanting, no pressure, and no weirdness. Just simple tools for presence, intimacy, and connection—with a warm, grounded vibe.
Can same-sex couples join?
Absolutely. This space is for all couples, all genders, all orientations. Love is love.
faqs:
Do we connect with other couples?
Nope, this is a private experience for just the two of you. You’ll be in the space with other couples, but all the practices are done with your partner only. There may be some group shares or light moments of witnessing, but you won’t be asked to connect physically or intimately with anyone else.
What should we wear?
Comfy, sensual, relaxed. Think soft fabrics, loose layers, something you can move, sit, and lie down in. Bring a change into your sexy lingerie too.
Do we need any experience?
None at all. Everything is guided. You just need to show up, be open, and be kind to each other.
