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Love starts the story - but presence, play & desire keep it alive. 

Discover your intimacy appetite — what’s your relationship really craving?

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Claim your desires &
deepen in connection 

Intimacy begins with you

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best ever date night program

For busy couples desiring to create deeper connection, sexual exploration and healthy communication. This is a 2 week journey, self paced video course to do with your partner, easy to fit in around your lifestyle.

 

More than just a date night, this is giving you all the tools to create daily intimacy in ways you may never have even thought of before. 

 

This program is designed to:

  • Break you out of routine and bring freshness to your relationship

  • Create space for meaningful conversations and shared rituals

  • Strengthen intimacy and passion in a natural, playful way

  • Cultivate more trust and vulnerabiility and give you tools to carry into everyday life for lasting connection.

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tantric date Night ritual

The Couple’s Date Night Ritual is a guided experience that turns an ordinary evening into something special and deeply connecting. Over 3–4 hours, you’ll be led through simple but powerful practices that help you slow down, let go of distractions, and really be present with each other.

Together, you’ll explore things like guided meditation, breathwork, eye contact, and playful touch — all designed to help you feel closer, more relaxed, and more in love.

This ritual is perfect for couples who want to break routine, reconnect, and experience a new depth of intimacy in their relationship.

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Intimacy coaching journey

This 6-month journey is for couples who want to go beyond quick fixes and create lasting, meaningful change in their relationship. Together, we’ll explore how to communicate openly, reconnect intimately, and grow stronger both as individuals and as partners.

Across our time together, you’ll learn to:

  • Break old patterns and replace them with healthy ways of relating

  • Communicate with honesty, clarity, and compassion

  • Deepen emotional and physical intimacy

  • Navigate conflict with more ease and understanding

  • Create a vision for your relationship that excites you both

 

Our sessions weave together practical tools, guided practices, and deeper explorations of intimacy so you not only understand each other better but also feel more connected in your daily life.

This journey isn’t about quick tips — it’s about building a relationship that feels alive, loving, and resilient for years to come.

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Couple's tantric massage

A Couples Tantra Massage is a unique and intimate experience designed to help you and your partner feel closer, explore new ways of giving and receiving pleasure, and learn simple tantric techniques you can bring into your relationship.

Over 5–6 hours, you’ll be guided through a beautiful ritual that slows everything down and creates a space where touch, presence, and pleasure become the focus. Each of you will receive a full-body tantric massage while the other observes, so you not only get to enjoy being touched — you also learn by watching and feeling how to give in a more connected, conscious way.

This experience helps you:

  • Discover new ways of touching that heighten intimacy and pleasure

  • Feel more confident giving and receiving in your relationship

  • Learn tantric practices that deepen connection in and out of the bedroom

  • Share a powerful, unforgettable experience that brings you closer

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transformational private retreat

Step into a world that is yours alone. The Private Couples Retreat is an intimate, high-level experience designed exclusively for you and your partner to immerse yourselves in love, presence, and connection.

Held over several days in a luxurious space, this retreat is a sanctuary away from everyday life — where you are guided through rituals, tantric practices, and experiences that will deepen devotion and desire.

This retreat invites you to:

  • Drop fully into each other, without distraction or responsibility

  • Reignite intimacy and passion in a safe, sacred container

  • Experience profound connection through breath, movement, and devotional touch

  • Deepen in trust and heal old resentments keeping you stuck

  • Be guided through rituals that bring depth, playfulness, and erotic aliveness to your relationship

  • Leave with not just memories, but a transformed way of relating

 

The Private Couples Retreat is more than a getaway — it is an exquisite investment in your love, designed to leave you both feeling renewed, inspired, and deeply connected for years to come.

Your Relationship Isn’t Broken — But Maybe You’re Experiencing This

Loss of Spark & Desire

You may find yourself in routine, maybe even getting bored and you've got every move in the bedroom down. In short - the excitement, spontaneity and newness isn't there. Perhaps this is leaving you feeling disconnected and longing for the excitement you once had.

Emotional Disconnection

Either one or both of you is feeling unseen, unheard, or misunderstood; intimacy suffers when emotional vulnerability and presence are missing.

Poor Communication & Unresolved Conflict

Misunderstandings, avoidance, or passive-aggressive patterns erode trust and closeness.

 

Neglecting Playfulness & Fun

Life responsibilities take over, leaving little time for joy, flirtation, and spontaneous connection.

 

Misalignment of Sexual & Emotional Needs

Desire mismatches, unspoken expectations, or fear around expressing wants create tension and frustration.

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How hungry are you?

Discover how you can feel more satisfied and full in your sex, love & intimacy with this fun, free quiz.

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Why Work with me?

I’ve been there. I’ve felt profoundly alone.

I felt blocked in my sexuality and self expression. I stayed in relationships for fear of being alone. I was in a sexless marriage craving for deeper intimacy and exploration of our sexuality together. 

 

I’m here to help the lost fierce hearts and wild lovers feel less alone and create real, meaningful connections with themselves & others. 

 

Anything is possible. It only takes a commitment to yourself and your desires. It takes being all in on creating what you want. 

 

It doesn’t have to be the way it always has been. 

 

Join me on a journey of transformation where I bridge the gap between your current reality and the dreams you hold for your relationships.

 

We walk this bridge together.

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ABI FOX INTIMACY COACH
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Celebrate the joy of connection.

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Discover a space where intimacy transcends the physical, where connection is an art form explored through presence, vulnerability, and deep personal insight.

 

Here is a safe place to explore what your needs and desires are in your sexuality, intimacy and relationship. All of you is welcome here. It's time to experience a level of self confidence, sovereignty and aliveness that brings a very sexy level of presence to your relationships, making every interaction more meaningful.

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Cherish the joy of feeling deeply understood and connected.

Discover a space where intimacy transcends the physical, where connection is an art form explored through presence, vulnerability, and deep personal insight.

 

Here you receive guidance, resources, and community support to help you navigate the complexities of relationships and self-love, making every interaction more meaningful.

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Explore 
Connection

Intimacy is like a dance—a unique rhythm you find as you explore connection. It can be as simple as enjoying a bowl of fruit in your garden or moving to music, truly feeling how it flows through your body. Intimacy deepens when you allow yourself to open up to someone else and nurture a deep connection with yourself.

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Trust & 
Vulnerability

Imagine the most beautiful dance of vulnerability and trust, where two souls connect on a level that transcends the physical. It’s more than just sex. You can have intimacy without sex, and you can have sex without intimacy!

Connect from the heart.

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Desires & Needs

.​ You invite desire & sexual hunger into your relationship just like a chef invites you to dine at the restaurant. You express your needs like you order your favourite dish on the menu, unapologetically and confidently. 

 

It’s in the quiet moments—whether it's sitting across from someone and truly listening, or allowing yourself to be seen in your most raw form, sharing your deepest fears or supporting each other through a painful trigger—that intimacy grows.

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presence

Presence in intimacy is like savoring a freshly baked loaf of bread. When you're fully present, you notice every detail—the golden crust, the warm aroma, the way it melts on your tongue. But if you're distracted, you miss the richness of the experience, and it becomes just another bite. 

 

Presence invites you to taste every moment deeply, turning connection into something truly nourishing and unforgettable. 

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self expression

Self-expression in intimacy is like finally cooking without a recipe—trusting your instincts, adding your unique flavor, and letting the real you shine through. 

 

It’s about speaking your truth, honouring your emotions; being brave enough to be fully seen, even when it feels vulnerable. True intimacy happens when you stop holding back out of fear and instead lead with your wholehearted, authentic self, creating a connection that’s raw, real, and deeply fulfilling. 

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truth

Truth in intimacy is like savoring a perfectly ripe fruit. Its vibrant exterior draws you in, but the real nourishment lies beneath the layers you must peel back. 

 

This requires courage—embracing both the sweetness and the bruises. Without truth, intimacy is hollow, but with it, connection becomes deeply fulfilling, satisfying your hunger for authenticity and love.

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Be curious & open yourself up to new possibilities.

Anchor deeply into safety, confidence &relaxation in your body 

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How would life change if you felt more ALIVE and FULFILLED in your relationship?

 Cultivate a fulfilling and vibrant sex life.

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How would it feel to be able to safely express your needs, desires & feelings?

Improve your communication
in & out of the bedroom

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WHY AM I DOING THIS WORK?

I suffered in my relationships.

I felt profoundly alone and misunderstood.

Sexually repressed for many many years,  I felt ashamed

to explore my sexuality

like I wanted to.

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This is your

This is your

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Discover How to Transform Your Sex Life and Feel Closer Than Ever.

Feeling inspired and ready to chat with me?

This discovery call is for all 3 of us to discover if I am the best woman to spport you. The energy between us is fundamental to your ability to transform and flourish in your intimacy, sexuality & relationships.

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the intimacy collection:

Discover your desires

Feeling inspired and ready to chat with me?

This free 30 minute discovery call is for both of us to discover if I am the best woman to support you.

The energy between us is fundamental to your ability to transform and flourish in your intimacy, sexuality & relationships.

I had an amazing time with you last week, it was wonderful to meet someone so open, welcoming and tuned into my energy.
 
It was truly one of the most connected and transformative tantric experiences I’ve had, as well
as the most fun!

Mr S

 
Thank you for our session.
 
It touched me deeply and you helped me to feel and cope with all of my emotions without getting overwhelmed and avoiding them. 

Esther

 
My session with Abi was magical. Being disabled she adapted it to my needs, Abi is very caring and attentive I would definitely recommend a session with her. I felt so good afterwards and I am excited to now see Abi again every month

Simon

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Do you want to please your partner more? Be a better lover?

It isn't just about how to make her orgasm but in how to have her begging for you to penetrate her? 

A day retreat, delving into tao, tantric & sacred sexuality practices & rituals to learn a woman's arousal and transform how you make love with the feminine.

epic lover experience- for men

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Tantric Massage for Men

 

A very profound and transformational experience for men who want to awaken their sexual energy, relieve stress, become a masterful lover & find deeper presence within themselves.

 

It's an incredible devotional touch to access more pleasure and sexual power.

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Best Ever Date Night for Couples

For couples desiring to create deeper connection, sexual exploration  and healthy communication.

 

This is a 2 week journey, self paced video course to do with your partner. More than just a date night, this is giving you all the tools to create daily intimacy in ways you may never have even thought of before. 

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ALIVE Mentorship for Women

A deep and powerful 3 or 6 month journey for women, working online, 1:1 with Abi.

 

This is for you if you desire to feel safe and comfortable in your body, confident in your expression and alive in your whole being to bring deeper intimacy and sexual expression into yourrelationships.

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powerful man coaching

Unlock a new level of confidence, presence and purpose, allowing you to show up as a more integrated, magnetic and conscious man.

 

I will guide you through various tantric practices to help you relieve your stress, be less in the mind and access the potent power your sexuality so you can enjoy more pleasure, deeper connection and please your woman more.

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