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Joyn The Temple
Remembering love, joy, and the freedom of authentic expression.
a place where community is born, & thrives.
what is temple?
Temple is a deeply transformational space exploring what it truly means to connect, and how to deepen into intimacy. We all long for connection: to be seen, to feel safe, and to be ourselves without proving, performing, or becoming who we think we need to be to belong. There is no pretending here.
Temple is a space where you are safe to be who you really are.
Temple is sex-positive, celebrating sexuality as a natural and sacred form of self-expression, however play, creativity and sensual expression are equally important.
Anchored in tantra, somatic practice, and embodiment, we work through the body allowing the mind to soften, rest, and take a holiday, so you can truly feel what is alive within you and let that guide the truth of your experience.
at the heart
Temple is about community.
So much healing, growth, and expansion happens when we gather in safe, loving, and accepting spaces.
This is tribe coming together in play, pleasure, and power,
exploring with curiosity and compassion what it means to be human.
Here, we let our guards down. We meet one another honestly.
And from this place, we create deeper intimacy and more authentic relationships — with ourselves and with each other.
What you'll experience
Safety
Enter a grounded, consent-led space where you can relax and trust
Authentic Relating
Building confidence to communicate intentionally your boundaries, desires, needs & vulnerability
Presence & Embodiment
Dropping out of the mind & listening to and moving with the wisdom of the body
Pleasure
Exploring and deepening into all forms of pleasure, the key to your aliveness
Emotional Capacity
Meet the edges of what you feel, expand your capacity to stay present with emotion,
and express it safely and honestly.
Dance, Movement & Play:
bringing curiosity, lightness, and humanity into connection, allowing the body to
lead, release, and express freely
You want to prioritize your relationship amidst life’s demands.
You’ve fallen into a routine
Conversations can sometimes feel surface-level
Physical intimacy is lacking
One or both of you struggles to express your feelings
You’re finding it difficult to carve out quality time for each other
The sense of excitement, passion, and exploration that once brought you together feels absent
You’re seeking more emotional vulnerability
You want to experience love differently
You’re excited to rediscover each other
🧡 This is for you if:
You're over 21
You want to explore intimacy in new, safe and expansive ways, in a sober space.
You love the idea of prioritising your sensual and sexual expression
You desire community & a place to feel at ease being yourself
All genders, orientations are welcome
You are ready to see what else could be possible in love, sex and relationships.
what others say...
I want to share with you and thank you for what has been overall the best temple for me so far. I was afraid I wouldn't be able to tune into the right energy, or letting myself go, or just afraid that I was "using" it as a distraction to run away from my thoughts and problems.
Turns out that today I felt clarity in a way I haven't experienced for a while, and I was able to address uncomfortable conversations and issues in my life.
Thank you for the juiciness, for holding space.
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the experience...
Day 1
transforming
date night
Unlock the secrets to a date night that transforms not just your evening, but your entire relationship
Day 2
WHAT TO
EXPECT
How to prioritize intimacy & make the most of this experience amidst a busy lifestyle
Day 3
understand
your dynamics
Imagine having multiple great relationships with the same person —what if it's possible?
Day 1
Day 4
NAVIGATING
TRIGGERS
Discover how can you handle emotional triggers and turn any conflict into connnection.
Day 1
Day 5
CONSCIOUS
COMMUNICATION
Learn to navigate communication as a team, sharing needs, expressing feelings & overcome challenges
Day 6
VISION
ALIGNMENT
Imagine a relationship where your deepest desires are met, your vision aligns and your connection grows endlessly.
Day 7
CREATING
CONNECTION
"Deepen your connection through touch with exercises that help you relax, turn off your mind & explore different sensations together.
Day 8
RELATIONSHIP
OF BENEFITS
A beautiful, connecting & heart warming practice to appreciate each other & reflect on your journey so far.
Day 9
DISCOVER
YOUR NEEDS
You have the ability to create magic by just bringing more of your awareness into your relationship.
Day 10
HOW TO
PREPARE
Learn how to set the stage for an unforgettable date night with an enchanting space, ritual & a hint of mystery
Day 11
day to night
transition
Very important one! How to go from a stressful busy day to being open for intimacy & sex
Day 1
Day 12
date night
example
Feel inspired & creative after seeing & feeling new ways of exploring your date together
The Finale
all important
after care
Intimacy doesn't end with the date—
aftercare is the key to ongoing connection.
transforming
date night
Unlock the secrets to a date night that transforms not just your evening, but your entire relationship
understand
your dynamics
Imagine having multiple great relationships with the same person —what if it's possible?
NAVIGATING
TRIGGERS
Discover how can you handle emotional triggers and turn any conflict into connection.
CONSCIOUS
COMMUNICATION
Learn to navigate communication as a team, sharing needs, expressing feelings & overcome challenges
CREATING
CONNECTION
Deepen your connection through touch with exercises that help you relax, turn off your mind & explore different sensations together.
DISCOVER
YOUR NEEDS
You have the ability to create magic by just bringing more of your awareness into your relationship.
the experience
Some of the videos include:
Why This Journey Matters
This isn’t just a week of videos & activities—it’s a pathway to transform your relationship. You’ll gain tools to handle life's inevitable triggers, express your needs, create a deeper, lasting bond and exciting sex life.
what's included
✔️ 13 Videos, Self Paced, To Suit Your Timeframe
✔️ Guided meditations and mindfulness practices.
✔️ Journaling prompts to spark self-reflection.
✔️ Interactive exercises for deeper connection.
✔️ Embodiment practices
✔️ A fully guided, intimate date night example.
✔️ Follow-up care to nurture your newfound closeness.
✔️ Music playlists & suggested tracks for specific moods.
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upcoming events
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Your Temple guide
Hi, I’m Abi — someone who’s been exactly where you might be.
For years, I was in a sexless marriage, feeling numb, disconnected from my body, and unsure how to ask for what I truly needed. I didn’t know how to feel, let alone express my desire, let alone receive. That heartbreak cracked me open and led me to the temple.
It was inside temple spaces that I finally softened. Where I could be utterly heartbroken yet still exploring my sexuality in a safe contained space. I didn't want to use sex to avoid my pain, but to be supported through it. I needed to learn what safety really felt like, how to feel my pain without avoiding it and to let go of the shame i felt from my 'failed' relationship. I could also let go of the fear of being too much. I came home to myself as a woman. It changed the kind of intimacy I experienced. It became more real and conncted.
Over the past 4+ years, I’ve trained and worked in tantra, conscious intimacy, embodiment, and sacred sexuality. I’ve held temple spaces in Ibiza and beyond, and now I guide others, especially couples, back to the connection they crave.
My work is about presence, permission, and play. It’s about normalising healthy, empowered sexuality, and creating spaces where your full expression is not just welcome, but celebrated.
Whether I’m guiding couples, supporting men to become conscious lovers, or helping women reclaim their emotional and sensual power, I’m here for the real, the raw, the beautifully human.
If you're ready to feel more
more love, more connection, more of you, you’re in the right place.
Do I need experience to come?
no experience needed, but some awareness of embodiment, tantra is recommended. This is a safe space to come and explore
Will there be nudity or sexual touch?
There is an open temple space which allows for nudity and sexual touch, but nothing is expected, you are in charge of your own experience.
Can i come with my partner?
Yes, you are welcome. You can stay together throughout all of the practices and evening temple. Please speak to each other about your needs, desires and boundaries before coming, your safety and comfort is paramount.
Are there any substances?
this is an alcohol and drug free space. We work with the medicine of the body, and creating safety and confidence from there.
faqs:
What do I need to bring?
this will be sent to you in your welcome email, but a water bottle is alaways a good idea, layers, warm socks, a change of clothes/lingerie, any snacks or drinks that you like to have
What should we wear?
Comfy, sensual, relaxed. Think soft fabrics, loose layers, something you can move, sit, and lie down in. Bring a change into your sexy lingerie too.
Is food included?
We do not provide lunch / dinner, so please ensure you eat a good meal before coming, some light snacks will be provided.
What happens during the day?
The day is designed to bring you into relaxation, presence and connection, first wuith yourself, then with others in the group. We focus on body led experiences, with practices to invite deeper awareness, embodiment and aliveness. It is partially guided, before a free flow towards the end.